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OT - Sad

Last post 11-07-2009 4:20 PM by Dawn429. 6 replies.
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  • 11-03-2009 6:21 PM

    OT - Sad

    Well we tried moving to IL.. When we got here the house we were supposed to rent was trashed the landlord refuses to give the security deposit back, we can't get enough together to find another place and we've been living in hotels for the past week and a half  (with two kids mind you, my third is back with my mom and I'm pregnant again of course).  The police academy was post poned so what we thought he would have job wise fell through.  I decided I wanted to go back to Florida where at least when things go wrong we have extended family support.  Hubby has decided not to come with me.  I'm thrilled to be going back and can't wait to see my three year old because it feels like ages and I know she has missed me a ton cause she calls almost daily, but I'm so sad that dh won't come home with me.  He feels that if he goes back he is admitting that he is a failure.  My dad is on a flight to come and meet me at the MO airport to drive me and the kids home since I can't drive and I'm supposed to keep my feet up.  Emotions are all over the place :(

  • 11-03-2009 6:42 PM In reply to

    • LukiesMama
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    Re: OT - Sad

     I'm so sorry things aren't working out. I don't know what to say other than I'm sorry :(

  • 11-04-2009 10:44 AM In reply to

    • Cali Girl
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    Re: OT - Sad

    Ugh I'm so sorry things didn't work out as planned! After all that you guys went thru to get there, stupid academy!! I hope you're DH finds his peace and is able to come home. I glad you're family is supporting you thru this tho and helping you get back to FL.
  • 11-04-2009 2:44 PM In reply to

    Re: OT - Sad

     I'm sorry that things didn't go as planned for you.  It's great that your family is being so supportive of you.  I hope your dh works it out for himself quickly.

  • 11-05-2009 3:16 PM In reply to

    Re: OT - Sad

    HOPE Y'ALL GET YER ANS SOON!
  • 11-07-2009 2:53 PM In reply to

    Re: OT - Sad

    Well he came home, but we are living with my parents.  We are house hunting but its slow going for a rental property AND he just got something from unemployment compensation that his old company is trying to appeal the decision so he has to attend a hearing and state his case.  This was from back in february!!!  IF they win we have to pay back everything that was paid out to us.  The thing we do have going for us is that they did not file a timely appeal AND they have no proof of what they say he did (mainly because he didn't do it, they were just trying to make up a reason to give him the ax because he was the newest employee and work had slowed waaaaaaaaayyyyyy down).   So at least everyone is back together, but Aaliyah is asking to go home (which there is no real home right now, just staying at grandmas) and we are being treated like little kids with curfews and bedtimes even though my parents aren't in bed till 2 most nights.  *sigh* thanks guys

  • 11-07-2009 4:20 PM In reply to

    • Dawn429
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    Re: OT - Sad

    Keep your head up (and those feet).  Everything will work out.  Sorry everything is so crazzzzy right now.

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