I'M NEW AND SCARED.....

• 08-22-2008 6:02 PM

  BlessedbythreeAngels Joined on 08-23-2008 MONROE, LOUISIANA Posts 3

  I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact FRIDAY AUGUST 15 I LOST MY THIRD CHILD. SHE WAS STILL BORN. I DON'T KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS A SECOND TIME AROUND OR EVEN WHO TO TALK TO ABOUT IT. IT IS SO HARD FOR ME BECAUSE I AM ONLY TWENTY YEARS OLD AND I CAN'T CARRY A PREGNANCY TO FULL TERM. THE FIRST TIME I GOT PREGNANT WITH TWIN GIRLS WHEN I WAS EIGHTEEN YEARS OLD. I LOST THAT PREGNANCY WHEN I WAS FIVE MONTHS ALONG ON APRIL 15, 2006. IT TOOK ME A YEAR TO REALIZE THAT MY LITTLE GIRLS WERE GONE AND THAT THEY WEREN'T COMING BACK. NOW TWO YEARS AND FIVE MONTHS HAVE PASSED AND I THOUGHT THAT THIS PREGNANCY WOULD BE OKAY. I WAS SEVEN MONTHS ALONG THIS TIME BEFORE I LOST HER. THE HARDEST THING TO DEAL WITH WHEN IT COMES TO LOSING THIS BABY IS THAT I HAD JUST BEEN TO THE DOCTOR TWO DAYS BEFORE AND EVERYTHING WAS OKAY. OTHER THAN THAT I DIDN'T EXPECT IT BECAUSE WHEN I WENT TO THE ER THEY WERE ABLE TO GET A HEARTBEAT, THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN IT DROPPED AND BEFORE THE DOCTOR COULD MAKE IT INTO MY ROOM WITHIN FIVE MINUTES SHE WAS GONE. HOW DO I GET THROUGH THIS? WHAT DO I DO? I AM SO SCARED THAT I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO HAVE KIDS. I NEVER IMAGINED THAT THIS WOULD HAPPEN AGAIN. I JUST FEEL HELPLESS. EVEN THOUGH I WON'T QUESTION WHY, IT IS SO HARD BECAUSE I DON'T UNDERSTAND.

• 08-23-2008 12:40 AM

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  Mom2AngelJocelyn Joined on 06-07-2008 Springfield Oregon Posts 8	Re: I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact I am so so so sorry about your loss's but please remember that all the ladies on here are here for you. I lost my daughter at 6months on july 3, 2006

• 08-24-2008 1:35 PM

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  BlessedbythreeAngels Joined on 08-23-2008 MONROE, LOUISIANA Posts 3	Re: I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact THANKS SO MUCH. IT FEELS GOOD TO BE ABLE TO HAVE SOMEONE TO TALK TO WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH A SIMILAR SITUATION. SO THANK YOU AND THE LADIES ON HERE VERY MUCH.

• 08-24-2008 11:55 PM

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  Beckmum2anangel Joined on 06-12-2006 Gold Coast Australia Ty born 21/05/08 Posts 1,192

  Re: I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact I'm sorry for your loss. There are some really lovely ladies here, that are willing to listen to you. My name is beck and I had a still born at 38 weeks in Feb 07. It was really hard going through my next pregnancy thinking that it would happen again. Thankfully everything turned out alright and I now have a happy and healthy 3 month old. Good luck in the future.

• 10-22-2008 11:17 AM

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  Margaretochka Joined on 07-05-2006 Mommy to an Angel Eva, Ezekiel & new baby boy! Posts 79

  Re: I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact I'm so sorry for your losses!!! Did they find out the reason why you lost your babies? I have lost a baby girl at 36 weeks 2 years ago, and like you I couldn't understand why it happened to me. But I decided not to question Why? I know God had a good reason for it, and maybe someday I'll know it. Three months after i lost my daughter I got pregnant with the my son, who is 13 months now and a healthy strong boy. So, please don't loose that hope! Hugs to you!

• 11-19-2008 7:54 PM

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  Rhandi01 Joined on 02-01-2004 Posts 1,377	Re: I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact I'm so sorry for your loss. No mother should have to go through this once much less multiple times. I also loss my child 19 hours after a full term delivery on April 15, 2006. We are here for you. rhandi

• 11-26-2008 2:59 AM

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  Desdemonia Joined on 10-26-2004 Posts 348	Re: I'M NEW AND SCARED..... Reply Contact  Oh darling...I know how you feel.  It is my biggest fear...that I can't carry a pregnancy to term.