jacobpapp:I am sorry you are in this very sad situation. See, if your boyfriend was a true MAN, he would love that baby regardless. You CANNOT give up your little girl for him. Who is to say if you do, the boyfriend will be around forever. If he puts these conditions on you now with such serious consequence, the future with him doesn't look all that loving. Your kids now, will go through hard times, knowing mom gave away a baby. You can't do it. You said yourself, your attached to this baby. Imagine your baby, she is totally attached, your the ONLY one she knows. When she is born, she ONLY knows your smell, voice, touch etc. She can even smell YOUR milk. WHen she cries, she wants you, mommy. Dont let ANY man make these decisions for you.
I agree. I am due August 20th with my daughter. I already feel bonded and no man would ever change that. Your kids are forever men can go at anytime. Besides do you really think you could look at him after he makes u give up your baby? You will hold it against him and your relationship will be strained once again. I believe that my children come first...that means ALL my children. That baby is you child too. Let him go if he chooses. I think u will regret this if you do it.