pregnant again....

• 05-17-2008 9:35 PM

  *mybabyangel* Joined on 12-10-2007 Posts 4	pregnant again.... Reply Contact im new to this group . i just found out that i am pregnant once again . i suffered a lost 7 months ago and i have that fear that i will happen again. ive been wanting this for so long and now that its here i dont know what to think. will it happen again? i dont think any one has the answer to that . i will not rest untill i have the baby in my arms..

• 05-18-2008 12:46 AM

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  MaeKhalil Joined on 05-18-2008 Posts 1	Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact Dont you worry dear, two of my friends suffered the same thing , and then they got pregnant again and they gave birth to great , healthy babies, so dont you worry , try to calm down and kick these thoughts out of your head :) You are going to be a mother and everything will be great :)

• 05-18-2008 8:08 PM

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  dahlhouse09 Joined on 04-06-2006 Twin Cities, Minnesota Posts 281

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact I was part of this group in 2006 while pregnant with DD..I am now pregnant again and due in jan '09 ( you too, I guess?? :) ). I have 3 living children (11 1/2, 9, and 18 months) and 3 angels (28 weeks NICU preterm birth and m/c at 10 weeks and 6 weeks.) Unfortunately, PW is much slower and less populated these days, but if you could use a listening ear and support I would love to. I am a little nervous this time around myself. I got pregnant on meds for fibromyalgia (unexpectedly) and have to watch for developmental probs, i am hoping I adjusted meds, quiting one and going to low dose of the other early enough to avoid any birth defects that could arise, Found out right at 4 weeks. MEG

• 05-27-2008 10:43 PM

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  jenn2561300 Joined on 03-09-2008 Posts 52

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact hi honey - i know what you are feeling. i miscarried yr & 1/2 ago at 11wks... when i got preg w/ this sweet baby, i was terrified. i didn't tell another soul (aside from partner) until i had passed 15 wks. even now at 32 wks, i am scared everyday. if i don't feel her move, i make her move..but i am so in love with her that i can't let down my guard. what i can say is that stress is a big 'no-no' and i try to remain calm despite my fears. nothing anyone is going to say will allay your fears, but loving every minute of pregnancy is all i can offer. be calm, relax and know that your body will try to do the best by you and your baby. hugs

• 06-26-2008 9:09 PM

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  AKSpaceCase Joined on 05-27-2008 Alaska Posts 3,160

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact I cant say it will all be okay, because I dont know that. I m/c at 14 weeks and am terrified it will happen again. Every ache that isn't "normal" scares the crap out of me. I think for me it will get better after 15 weeks. I have 2 1/2 weeks to go until then and am a mess right now. I have stressed so bad my neck is tight and I cant hardly move my neck. DH told me to think of all the fun we have with the 15,13, & 3 yo children we already have and know that God is in control. Its really hard! I know all that, but putting it into practice is so much harder. If you can, talk to your dr about your fears. Mine will let me come in daily if needed to just hear the heart. I did take her up on that once cause I had pain, turned out to be gas pain, and she fit me in and let me hear the heart and it was a blessing. Relieved my mind and I could go about my day or week. Now I am trying to wait till my appt in 5 days, but its harder to wait as I get to that "horrible" week. I think we will all worry to some degree until we have a healthy baby to hold. I wish you the best of luck this time around. Try not to stress, relax and enjoy your good days!!

• 08-17-2008 10:07 PM

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  Deby3004746 Joined on 08-18-2008 Posts 3	Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact I am going through the same thing. I miscarried 1 1/2 years ago. I am so terrified that it will happen again, I know for a fact I could not handle it if it did. I am having slight cramps once and a while and am unsure it it is normal.

• 08-22-2008 11:21 AM

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  Jennifer2545996 Joined on 08-22-2008 Posts 1

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact Hi there, I too just found out that I was pregant after I gave birth at 21 weeks. I seem to have so many fears this time, that anytime something feels strange I want to run to the doctors. But just remeber no 2 pregencys are the same and just think positive! Please keep me posted on how you are doing, I think it is always good to have support from someone that has been there before

• 08-26-2008 12:18 PM

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  *mybabyangel* Joined on 12-10-2007 Posts 4

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact hi ..well i am now 19 w 6 d i and even thought i am still a li scared i am now more happy that i have came this far with her every movement ,it makes me more secure that she is fine ( its a girl) with my first pregnancy i did not come this far i was 6 weeks when i misscarrid...i want feel totaly relife untill she is born and in my hads safe and healthy.i wish the best to you and keep me updated how it goes like you said no two pregnancies are the same...

• 08-27-2008 9:01 PM

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  Betty3020520 Joined on 08-23-2008 Posts 3	Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact I know what you feel like, I got pregant and I was having a boy and girl twin, But When I was 6 months I went in to early labor and both of my twins passed away after 2 hrs of birth. Then 5 months later I got pregant again and I too feared that it would happening again but it didnt so now I have a beauiful baby girl named Savannah. So i do know what it's like.

• 08-28-2008 1:46 AM

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  Amynelovesyou090908 Joined on 08-26-2008 Lawton, Ok Posts 6

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact I Completely understand, I was pregnant in may of 2006 and i was 4 months and i had a very painful miscarriage. And i was told after that that i would not be able to have another baby. i am Currently pregnant and doing well. Have no fear, all will go well. Just keep your stress down and try not to worry. go to all your appointments and Your body will tell you at the first sign of trouble. just Remember that God( Or Your chosen Higher power) had a good reason to not allow you to carry to term.

• 09-08-2008 3:04 PM

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  jennie3002063 Joined on 08-14-2008 tennessee Posts 7	Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact I have a 13 year old and a 6 year old and just miscarried at 9 weeks. Not sure if we want to try again or just be thankful that we already have 2 healthy children (one boy, one girl). I think I would be so scared of another m/c, How did you decide to try again???

• 09-09-2008 9:43 PM

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  *mybabyangel* Joined on 12-10-2007 Posts 4

  Re: pregnant again.... Reply Contact hi jennie, well its a hard decision to make , i decided to try again because i needed to fill the emptiness in my heart, i really wanted to be a mother its some thing i always knew .... its something you have to really takl to your partner about, you had two healthy pregnancies , m/cwas just one of those things that happen once. eventhough im 22 weeks i am sacred to this date, but so happy at the same time i thank god or everyday she is still in me.....