I will try and make this fast. to start with i am 35 and have a 17y girl and a 15y boy and got divorced and then tied my tubes, soon after i did that i met my new husband and he has no kids so many years later we went and got my tubes un-tied and started to try now before we did any of this we talked to both the kids and they were all good with the idea that is untill i was heading to the hospital the morning of the surgery and then i find out my son was not happy about it at all and so i told him it was to late and we will work it out when i get back and so we mostly did, he was not happy about us trying but think he just hoped it wouldnt work, but it did and as the pregnancy went by he tried to be ok with it but kept telling me he didn[t want to be at the hospital when i had my c-section and he didn't waant to hold the baby or anything, i did convince him that i wanted to see him as soon as i came out of the or so he did show up at the hospital and from that point on i have not got this little baby out of his arms, he will do anything for him but change diapers and i think he would do that if i asked so for any of you out there with teens that say no and don[t want any part of the baby just give them a chance, the one thing i did was word everything as I wanted him there not for baby but for me, and i also never pushed him to hold the baby but as soon as he did you could see he just melted and that teen side of no and i don't care all just went away. and as far as my oldest she has always been good from the start and wanted the baby and now its like he has 2 moms, we take shifts alot of times and even when i tell her no i got him i find she takes him at night before he crys and has him in another room at night so he doesnt wake me. i feel so lucky right now, i have this little miricle baby and 2 great teens to help