I am going into my 19week of pregnancy, my sex drive just returned this month. I believe it was due to my morning sickness going away, and I was suffering minor depression because the father and I broke up.
I am now seeing someone during my pregnancy, which is new to me I have never had sex with someone other than the father of the child I am carrying. Also, being single during my pregnancy is all new too. You guys, I was totally against having sex with another man other than the father...but he lives in Chicago first of all (was not trying to wait on him to come around) and my sex drive came back with a force!
Before I got pregnant I was only having sex maybe twice a month, but more when I was seeing someone in a relationship. Most recently, I feel the desire to have sex close to 2-4 times a week. I am aroused when my fabric rubs against my breast, or when I think about my current partner and I get turned on during my wild pregnancy induced dreams. I wind up waking up ready to go, and no one here to help with my needs. My guy lives 45minutes away with his 3children, so its kinda hard to see him as often as I want it (he works,Coaches football, and his kids have sports they are in). So what happens in the mornings when I awake alone...I wind up masturbating and maybe twice that day. I had to stop myself from masturbating for a whole week once because I felt a very hard contraction like orgasm afterward.
Last week, I had sex withdrawals for not seeing my partner for a whole week. I was acting unbelievably wacky, he even asked me what was wrong. He knew that my behavior was not my usual. I am trying my best not to always talk about sex to him and want it so much because we are still in the new dating stages. I have even cried because I wanted it so bad, and I couldn't get it...I thought to myself is this how those howling dogs in heat feel?!! It was an awful feeling, I had to meditate really hard that day. I knows its the pregnancy hormones, I know for a fact because I would NEVER do anything like this with a new guy and cry because I want sex.
I feel great that I am pregnant, plus size, and still feel sexy even with a growing belly in front. This is a first for me, my other pregnancies I didn't feel sexy at all and sex was the last thing on my mind...now with this pregnancy it seems like the only thing on my mind.(lol..it doesn't help that this guy is really sexy to me, when he comes over I almost launch at him like a rocket..yes, its sickeneing),
Sorry so long,
Horny Busy Mommie of 4