okk here goes my story, i have two little boys a three year old and a six month old. well i found out in march that i am expecting again december 4th, i had some spottingin the first two weeks but then all was well.... until two weeks ago after intercourse i started spotting, but nothing horrible.. it let off like two days later and then came back again. I told the dr and she wasnt all that worried, then three days ago i went to the bathroom, began bleeding heavy and had a few clots (tmi sorry), then it stopped then the next morning i had horrible pains and alot off spotting, i have had one other miscarriage at home so i knew what to expect. it was exactly the same, i had heavy bleeding and clots..then the clots stopped and i felt alot bettter... till the next morning (yesterday) pains got soooo much worse clots came back so i went to the er, thinking for surely i had a misscarriage, well went gotta ultra sound and the baby still had a heartbeat!! I was shoked and again pain went away but bleeding still continues... then this moring again horrible pain (starts at 4 am every day but lets up later in the day to absolutely no pain..dr is clueles as to why this is!) anyways i went to the dr and once again baby has a heart beat but the pain i haveis like contractions every 4 minutes, the dr talked to me and basically said shes never seen this, its like my body is trying to release the pregnancy but its holding on! she said i can a) deal with this pain every morning til idk when b) terminate but it isnt going to be for medical reasons cuz of the heartbeat it will be done at a out clinic abortion place.. so unfair because i dont want to lose this baby! or c) spend idk how many months in the *** hospial on pain meds that probally wont help forever! my question is does anyone know anyone who has had a similar experiance and how did they and thier baby turn out, i just am stuck on what to do and my dr had no answers cuz this is a first for her to, help please!!
thanks