Congrats on your miracle. How far along are you? Sometimes, when we first find out were pregnant, it is hard for our DH's to understand. They have been #1 in our lives for so long, its hard for them to open up and realize they will now be "competing" with a baby. They dont have the instant bond we do with our kids, cause they dont go through the pregnancy like we do. My BF is only really involved with the appointments and such, he doesnt touch my belly or talk to the baby at all. I think its just their way. Hopefully as you progress in your pregnancy he will come around and be happy. For some men, they think they are losing their life when they have a baby on the way, another stress or responsibility they have put on them and they have no control over it. I would try to sit down and really talk to him about it, and let him get all his fears and worries out.
IF hes saying hes not happy with your relationship as a couple, my question would be why? Was he not there when you were going to the doc and getting the pills to make you ovulate more? Did he not know about it and it came as some big surprise? I would try to talk to him about it, and ask why he continued to have unprotected sex with you, knowing it COULD happen. even if he didnt think it WOULD. Tell him about the stress its putting on you knowing how he feels and see what can be done to change things. You made this baby together, you should have his support through your pregnancy.
HUGS~ pregnancy is hard on everyone, including the dads to be.......
~Jamie~