I was 20 when I had my first child, and now I am on my 3rd. It is wonderful and you sound very motivated and excited... which is what you need, lots of energy!!! You sound very wise and know how valuable a great support network is... especially raising kids. It truly takes a whole village to raise a child, like the song says, but YOU get to be the MOMMY... which is sooo awesome! Blessings and best wishes for a speedy delivery! God bless you.