The Nerve Of Men

• 10-08-2008 2:03 PM

  kiki_973 Joined on 07-10-2006 New Jersey Posts 78

  The Nerve Of Men Reply Contact DH says to me the other day "This is it, we're nt having any miore children you're getting your tubes tied." Umm okay. First of all we are separated. Not even living together right now, although we are trying towork it out. But if he is so hell bent on not having anymore babies why doesn't he get a vascetomy? When I said no he says "Why? If we don't make it are you going to have another baby with another man?" I just told him that I wasn't sure that I didn't want anymore kids and that was a decision that I wasn't ready to make. Can you believe the gall????

• 10-09-2008 7:24 AM

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  Donna2944860 Joined on 07-10-2008 Indiana Posts 59

  Re: The Nerve Of Men Reply Contact Men just assume that since we bare children that we should be the ones to get fixed.  When in all reality, times have changed!!! Snip snip snip!! Besides it should be a two sided decision and neither person should make the decision on their own. If you still want more then he should keep an opened mind. I am going through the same thing. I want one more and he isn't sure. I have a boy and he has a girl. Now we are having a girl together!

• 10-13-2008 5:52 AM

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  mom2bre92003 Joined on 05-07-2008 Posts 81	Re: The Nerve Of Men Reply Contact I am a firm believer that if the man doen't want anymore children then he should be the one to get fixed! We are the ones that carry the babies and go through labor and delivery not to mention all the other things that our bodies go through from start to finish!

• 11-01-2008 4:39 PM

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  heather3104518 Joined on 11-01-2008 Posts 6	Re: The Nerve Of Men Reply Contact men are just 2 much...how dare him just expect you to do that, as if he owns you. my brother n law had a vasectomy last yr, its not even bad, its a damn outpatient surgery to top it off!!! you stick to ur guns, i would tell him no way!