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19 && Pregnant!!!!!

Last post 09-30-2009 12:47 AM by proudmom19. 2 replies.
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  • 09-28-2009 11:47 PM

    • NicoleL2009
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    19 && Pregnant!!!!!

    Well let me just start off by introducing myself && telling you a little bit about me. My name is Nicole im 19 years old. Im engaged to the most wonderful man in the world! His name is Nathan && he is 24 years old. My family loves him && his family.... well can care less about me (i think). We have been together for a year && 2 months. We have been trying to get pregnant for the past 7 months. Well on August 20th, 2009 i found out i was pregnant! Me && Nathan could'nt have been happier. But there's just one thing. Him nor his parent's dont know weather the kid is his or not. The reason for that is, on June 2nd Nathan && i got into an arguement && we split up. I told my mom && she told me not to beat myself up over it && that im only 19 && shouldnt tie myself down in a serious realationship so fast. && she told me im only 19 i should just go out && have fun like a 19 year old. Well i made a mistake && slept with a friend June 18th. Which i know was wrong. Me && him used protection && didnt even finish cuz i felt bad for doing that. Well i started my period July 4th && me && Nathan got back together July 6th. Everything was going good till he told his mom i was pregnant. Right off the bat she told Nathan that the kid wasn't his. Now she has him believeing it's not his. Which.... (excuse my language) IS B/S!!!!! Now me && his mom bump head's every time we're around each other! && They want me to get a PRENATAL perternity test done! WHICH I DONT WANT! Well.... this is what i believe! I KNOW THE KID IS NATHAN'S!!!!!! This is why, the guy i slept with used protection. He didnt even finish! He has a mental diease && has an extra chromosome. HE CANT HAVE KIDS! (Doctors tell me he has a 1% chance of having kids.) Him && his ex wife tried to have kids for 6 years && she left him cuz HE CANT HAVE KIDS! Another reason why i believe it's Nathan's is.... im 12 weeks pregnant! The baby's age is only 10 weeks! I started my period July 4th!!!! If i was pregnant with the other man's baby i would be further along than 12 weeks.... right!?!?!? Well the whole point of this blog is, this whole "is it his or is it the other guys" is tearing me && Nathan apart! He's already told me that if the baby isn't his then me && him are over with for good! Which i am not worried, i just want him to know the baby IS HIS ASAP! So we can get back to our happy lives! What can/should i do? Do you think i should go through with the PRENATAL PATERNITY test?
  • 09-29-2009 2:46 PM In reply to

    Re: 19 && Pregnant!!!!!

    Hi Nicole. My name is Stacie. I know what you are going through because I just dealt with this with my mother in law. In December of last year, I ended up almost sleeping with my husbands friend. I was drunk and my husband and I hit a rough patch. Anyhow, my hubbys mom, when we found out I was pregnant in March, was trying to say it wasnt my hubbys. But I knew for a fact it was my husbands because the guy and I didnt even have sex!!!! She was getting close to convincing my hubby the baby wasnt his until we got our first ultrasound and the baby was too young to have been the other guys anyways!! I say you dont let her get to you. And if he truly loves you, he will stay by your side. I say you just carry on with everything, show him you love him and if his mom starts in on you, just ignore her. Dont risk your baby because she thinks its not her sons. When that baby comes, and she sees him or her, she will know its his. And so will he. Then they can grovel at your feet and apologize for being insensitive a**holes. sorry bout the language :) Hope your pregnancy goes well and keep your chin up!
  • 09-30-2009 12:47 AM In reply to

    • proudmom19
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    Re: 19 && Pregnant!!!!!

    Hey Nicole my name is Lisa and im going through the same thing but i'm not married. All of my baby daddy's friends and family convinced him that this baby isn't his but indeed it is. I never cheated on him and i never attempted to, so i don't no where they could have gotten that idea from, maybe they just want to talk *** but whatever. i believe that all that matters is if your sure that its his, i could care less what other people think and you shouldn't either.... and they will feel like *** once they realize that it is his like you said. You shouldn't have to prove nothing to nobody as long as your sure. and if your husband loves u enough it should matter weather its his or not, my boyfriend and i got together when i was 3 months and i didnt no i was pregnant once he found out that i was he still wanted to be there for me and his lil angel like he says. But i wish you the best and tell your husband to trust you cause a relationship is based on trust and without it there is no relationship.
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