i'm stressed out to the max, i returned to work a few months ago but the work is shift work and i'm currently relying on my dad to help out my partner while i'm at work in the evenings, but when i'm home i want to be home, i want my other half to spend time with bub. my other half wants to spend time with bub, instead of feeling like the last person on the list. she still goes to daycare from 8-4 so if i'm working a pm shift i dont get to see her except for a short time in the morning. my dad asked to move in with us when we bought our house earlier this year to store his stuff and help out, fair enough but i'm an overly independant person and i feel like a line has well and truely been crossed. he was supposed to be going overseas...now hes booked his ticket and its only 7weeks, just under 2months nowhere near the 6months i was expecting. he knows i'm upset but he still wont back off and i've said to him that he sees her more than we do and all he could say was, "WELL THATS HOW IT GOES!" not in my house! i dont want to be rude or ungrateful for his help but what does the near future hold, our daughter will be more attached to him than us....cause even when i'm home and shes happy playing with me he just has to come and take over.........i can so see this not ending well! just needed to let off steam! thanks heaps.