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Do you see anything wrong with this?

Last post 09-20-2009 5:51 PM by Mara+Haley. 15 replies.
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  • 08-29-2009 9:38 AM

    Do you see anything wrong with this?

     

    Awhile ago I posted about a girl I work with.  Her husband raped his 2 nieces (both under 10 years old).  She has 2 kids with him, and another one on the way.  She had been leaving her kids home with him everyday, because nobody would hire him.  

    Well I guess he was finally able to get a job, so her kids have been put in daycare.  Yesterday at work she got a phone call from the daycare saying she needed to come pick up her 3 year old daughter immediately.  I guess her 3 year old is touching the other kids inappropriately, and is trying to get them to touch her.

     She doesn't see anything wrong with it.  She says this is normal 3 year old behavior.  

  • 08-29-2009 10:16 AM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

     Oh no.  That is definitely not normal.  Yes, kids are curious, I suppose, but none of my kids have ever acted that way.  Call CPS.  If you don't want to, I will.  Those kids are being abused.  Praying for those poor children.

  • 08-29-2009 11:30 AM In reply to

    • twinkle.toez
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    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    I'd definitely let someone know.

  • 08-29-2009 12:09 PM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    That daycare provider is legally obligated to report her suspicions and I would make sure she knows this. Yes body curiosity is normal, trying to get people to touch you is not. Why on earth do they ever let pedophiles out into society? Very few of them are ever rehabilitated.
  • 08-29-2009 8:11 PM In reply to

    • Alisha2840354
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    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    I think she needs to go to jail! Come on...you stay together with a man who raped two littles girls and then leave your daughter with him!! WTF is wrong with her. Yes, he is sick and belongs behind bars but so does she! Seriously, I hope someone gets involved quick.

  • 08-29-2009 10:19 PM In reply to

    • Amy~n~company
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    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

     Someone needs to call CPS on them at the very least.

  • 08-30-2009 10:30 AM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    The child picked it up from somewhere.....uh the evil husband. That is so disgusting that she even picked this guy to be with before she even had kids with him, much less....having kids with him. Someone needs to smack her back into the real world. That is just so so, uuuggh..
  • 08-31-2009 8:24 AM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    wow i would deffinatly call CPS or make sure the daycare did that guy is disgusting and she is completly naieve to think that he would not touch his own kids they both do not need to have the kids and also yes kids are curious but they usually only are curious about their own bodies not others. somone needs to step in and if i were you i would make the call i know she is a friend but those kids are in danger and should not have to live like that.
  • 08-31-2009 2:22 PM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

     I called to report it today.  They are very concerned, but no one can find a recent address (which means he isn't registering as a sex offender).  They are very upset that they haven't heard from the daycare.  I am going to try and get a current address so they can look into it.  I hope they will just find out he doesn't live at the addresss listed and arrest him for not registering.

  • 08-31-2009 5:04 PM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

     If you want to, give me his and her names.  I can probably get their address for you. 

  • 08-31-2009 7:20 PM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

     They just moved within the last 2 weeks.  I have the address they were at previously.  I'm going to try and get it from someone at work.

  • 09-01-2009 7:52 AM In reply to

    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    That is NOT normal behavior. That is learned behavior. For some reason that little girl has it in her mind that what she is doing is ok. Me, personally, well I would call CPS. I was sexually abused as a child, and I would not want to take the chance that it is happening to another innocent child. It is not something the father can just get over. People who do such things have deep rooted problems. That is sickening...
  • 09-02-2009 6:17 AM In reply to

    • Glynis2592866
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    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    WTF CAN YOU IMAGINE LIVING WITH A MAN THAT RAPED A CHILD MUCH LESS HAVE YOUR LITTLE GIRL AROUND HIM OR SLEEPING NEXT TO HIM OR HAVING SEX WITH HIM. SHE IS SO INDENIAL AND HER DAUGHTER IS PAYING THE PRICE. IF THAT IS HAPPENING ATHEN THAT LITTLE GIRL HAS DEFINITLEY BEEN ABUSED ESPECIALLY IF SHE'S TRYING TO GET OTHERS TO TOUCH HER INAPPROPRIATELY. YOU ON THE OTHER HAND IS DOING THE RIGHT THING, YOU ARE TRYING TO PROTECT THAT LITTLE GIRL BECAUSE HER MOTHER IS OBVIOUSLY TO INLOVE TO PUT HER DAUGHTERS WELL BEING 1ST.
  • 09-03-2009 6:18 AM In reply to

    • Katie_V
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    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    OMG - this makes so SO mad and SO sick!! CPS better get involved, quick! Why would this girl's family let this happen? Why would SHE? I would be calling CPS daily until something gets done.
  • 09-05-2009 1:36 PM In reply to

    • gabby2799301
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    Re: Do you see anything wrong with this?

    you should call cps, most of us have 3 year old and yes we know that they are curious but to be asking others to touch them, that is something else, that means something else, i would report her.
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