Afraid ex-husband may hurt our 8 month old baby girl

• 09-23-2008 9:00 PM

  Jamie2385579 Joined on 09-24-2008 Posts 2

  Afraid ex-husband may hurt our 8 month old baby girl Reply Contact I am a new mother of a baby girl, Emily. She is almost 8 months old. A week after finding out I was pregnant my husband wanted a divorce. We had been trying to get pg for over a year, it was very devastating. He made the pregnancy stressful, and I found out lots of things about him I never knew. He cheated on me with a female firefighter he worked with, sexually assaulted a girl 9 years ago, and I now see how controlling and manipulative he was and is. I also found something suspicious on our home computer during the beginning of the divorce, he had limewire and I saw something with babies listing in the videos. I am afraid he might "mess" with Emliy or hurt her. Does anyone know who to contact outside the local police department about issues like child porn? Please help us.

• 09-24-2008 6:22 AM

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  Lovin' my Kids Joined on 11-19-2006 Posts 216

  Re: Afraid ex-husband may hurt our 8 month old baby girl Reply Contact I am sorry for all that you have gone through, but I a judge is not going to say that cause you saw a title to a video that had the word babies in it that he is a sexual pedifile.   Nor can you make false allegations to the police about him being into child porn based on a title with the word babies in it to try to get him in trouble... the courts will look at that as you being petty and vindictive and could possibly give him full custody.    It sucks that he left you... he sucks that he cheated on you... and unless he was charged and found guilty for the alleged assault on a girl 9 years ago... that didn't happen.    You need to just focus on you and your child... hire an attorney and give him the information that you want looked at and if anything can be used, he will but be prepared for your ex to get up to 50% of your child's time.

• 09-24-2008 4:20 PM

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  Chamelyan Joined on 10-30-2007 Midwest Posts 77

  Re: Afraid ex-husband may hurt our 8 month old baby girl Reply Contact  You say he assaulted a girl, was he ever convicted of this or is it something you heard?  If he's been convicted, his name should be on the sex offender registry, and that generally means he's not to have isolated contact with any kids, I believe that includes his own.  If you fear for your baby's safety, you MUST do whatever you can (legally) to prevent her from being hurt.  Get a good lawyer, hire a private investigator, if you must, to find out if he's really a dangerous person.  If he is, do what you can to get him away from your daughter.  Good luck.