me and my man arent married but we do have a baby together and weve lived together for a year and a half been together for awhile...um well..for like a year now all weve been doing is arguin and here lately its been gettin worse..im so heart broken and the thing is im 19..everybody told me young love doesnt last, i was so set to prove them wrong...looks like they are right..i cant stand it nomore...i dont wanna leave but for the sake of my child and for the sake of our relationship, i think i may have to..i dont even know if i love him anymore becuase of all the aruging..its just been a few months, and i know im young and you probably think dont know what im talkin about, but im pretty wise...anyway its been a few months, for yourself, him, and your children..try to make it work..if it doesnt then consider divorce...write down on a piece of paper all the things yall argue about or all the bad things he does and ask him to change dont tell him just ask..tell him to do the same..it helps some ppl..didnt help me and my fiance, but maybe it will yall...your kids need yall..we are the adults we are supposed to to show them how to act..when a problem comes up we cant run and hide..fight til the end for your babies...if its not meant to be then you know you didnt give up it just wasnt meant to be.. and you can let you babies know that you and your husband fought til there was no fight left for yalls marriage of course and some things just arent meant to be and some ppl just dont belong together...hope that helps.. good luck...