NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN

• 10-16-2008 6:53 AM

  lorene2613068 Joined on 10-16-2008 Posts 4

  NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN Reply Contact hi, i have read alot of the topics and i agree with alot of them. i have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years and we just had a baby girl 2 1/2 months ago, granted this is my fiances first little girl, he has a son ,and i have a 14 year old daughter, when he has his daughter's attention ,there is no room in his life for me, i feel really put back on the burner, we both are wonderful parents and we have alot in common and he is my best friend, i have tried to start off with a little loving, and even started asking him to have a kiss, he does not even recongize me now that the baby is in the picture. he has a new position he has been in for about 2 months, and he works alot, we used to be so much in love, now i think he doesnt even care to have me in his life. any ones thoughts

• 10-17-2008 10:20 AM

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  Williams-Jones_Freda Joined on 03-09-2004 Sunflower, Mississippi Posts 113

  Re: NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN Reply Contact   I really don't know what to say about this one but I'm guessing that his little girl is really precious to him...so he is putting more of his time and energy into her....He seems to want her to be "Daddy's Little Girl"...Sounds like he loves her sooo much that she will have problems when she gets older....lol....but if he is your bestfriend...You should tell him how you feel and ask him how does he feel.....Start off with a simple conversation like; how do you feel about me? Do you love me? Then ask him how does he feel? Then after he responds....Make sure that you are listening to him so that you can respond the right way that you all will have an understanding....

• 10-28-2008 1:52 AM

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  Heather2649743 Joined on 10-23-2008 Posts 7	Re: NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN Reply Contact maybe instead of taking this as a bad thing.. take it in as a blessing... a man who loves his child and wants to work!! ummm.. where do i sign up?? you know im sure he has just as much on his plate as you do.. maybe because hes working so much he feels as though you get all the time with baby and he very little!! talk to him!

• 10-31-2008 10:01 AM

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  lorene2613068 Joined on 10-16-2008 Posts 4

  Re: NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN Reply Contact Heather ------ thanks for the advice, it was well taken., i have spoken to him and i guess it just seems that the post partum is still there. he actually went hunting in ga last sat and will be back tomorrow 11/1. there was no one up in ga to hunt with so he did alot of thinking, and he is starting to make me feel iimportant to. no i am not jealous of my daughter, in no means, but i would still like some honey time to when the kids go to bed. i have started letting him be in control of his daughter, and that i am not always up his ---. which could be a problem. thanks again, Lorene

• 10-31-2008 10:03 AM

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  lorene2613068 Joined on 10-16-2008 Posts 4	Re: NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN Reply Contact Freda, thanks for your advise as well. it is nice to have some people give there opinions and not judge!!!! thanks we will talk soon Lorene

• 11-01-2008 1:50 AM

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  Heather2649743 Joined on 10-23-2008 Posts 7	Re: NO ATTENTION AFTER BABY IS BORN Reply Contact no problem glad i could help!!