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PLz HELP ME

Last post 12-12-2008 4:00 PM by Chamelyan. 14 replies.
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  • 12-11-2008 9:33 AM

    PLz HELP ME

    i am 19 weeks and like 4 or 5 days pregnant. and last night i had sex wit another guy that is not my babys ather and he had ejaculated inside of me. i am really scared bc i dont know if its possible if u can get pregnant while u already prgnant?, whot will it do to the baby?, etc..?
  • 12-11-2008 9:40 AM In reply to

    Re: PLz HELP ME

    You can't get pregnant again. It really can't do anything to the baby, but why didn't you use protection?! What if that guy has an STD and now you put your baby in that situation! Did you think about your baby at all, or just said f**k it? Use your head. Start putting your baby first

  • 12-11-2008 9:42 AM In reply to

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    What she said. And honestly... you can't really be serious right?

  • 12-11-2008 11:42 AM In reply to

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    i am being serious and the dude was a virgin i know for a fact bc i am the one that took his virginity. i kno he dont got nothing nor do i but i am scared that i *** up big time i know but u cannot judge a book by its cover. i am sry.
  • 12-11-2008 12:19 PM In reply to

    • jamiexyz
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    Re: PLz HELP ME

    You know he is a virgin because he told you or because you know for sure? Being pregnant, you need to realize that any decisions that you make from now on - you are making for you and your child.
  • 12-11-2008 1:18 PM In reply to

    Re: PLz HELP ME

    bc i kno for sure
  • 12-11-2008 10:02 PM In reply to

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    You actually can get pregnant while you are pregnant. It's very rare but it does happen. Don't listen to all that mumbo jumbo. Just don't forget to use a condom.
  • 12-11-2008 10:14 PM In reply to

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    Are you serious? If you are asking questions like these you should not be having sex and you most certainly should not be procreating! Ovulation — the release of an egg — usually occurs about 14 days before a woman's period begins. Pregnancy begins if the egg is fertilized by sperm and then completely implants itself in the lining of the uterus. Once a pregnancy begins, a woman's body begins to release hormones to support the pregnancy. The same hormones also prevent ovulation and menstruation. Since a woman does not ovulate while she is pregnant, it is not possible for an additional pregnancy to occur.
  • 12-11-2008 10:51 PM In reply to

    Re: PLz HELP ME

    Brittany, You are seriously frightening me. I see from one of your other posts (It hurts bad) that you slept with your baby's father today and (according to this post) you slept with another guy last night. Please, please... for the sake of STD's and how they would affect your baby.... please, if you are planning to be promiscuous, AT LEAST USE CONDOMS!! I realize that you are only 17.... maybe you don't understand the consequences of your actions?? But, if that's the case and you seriously don't understand how everything you do affects your baby, then it makes me wonder what in the world you're doing having a child in the first place?? You are simply too young. Babies having babies.....
  • 12-12-2008 8:01 AM In reply to

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    Ok if you can't ovulate while your pregnant, tell me why my sister is about two months younger then me. You DO ovulate while your pregnant, and you CAN get pregnant while your pregnant. Like I said before it happens very rarely but, it does happen!!
  • 12-12-2008 9:27 AM In reply to

    Re: PLz HELP ME

    From Wikipedia:

    Superfetation (also spelt superfoetation, based on a false etymology — see fetus) is the formation of a fetus while another fetus is already present in the uterus. When there are two separate instances of fertilisation during the same cycle, rather than different cycles, it is known as superfecundation.

    Superfetation is claimed to be common in some species of animals, but is extremely rare in humans. It can occur only where there are two uteri, or where the menstrual cycle continues through pregnancy.

    In humans

    Reports of superfetation occurring long after the first impregnation have often been treated with suspicion and some have been clearly discredited. Other explanations have been given (and demonstrated) for different levels of development between twins. Artificially induced superfetation has, however, been demonstrated although only up to a short period after insemination.

     

    I have unprotected sex with my husband all the time and did with my previous pregnancy as well and I'm sure there are plenty of other women who have as well and none of them have double pregnancies. IF it were even likely I think you would hear of instances more often.

  • 12-12-2008 11:14 AM In reply to

    Re: PLz HELP ME

    as the earlier post you cant not get pregnant due to hormonal levels needed to sustain a pregnancy preventing ovulation. Also if your sister is two months younger than you then you would be 10 months apart which means mom got busy right after you were born, not while she was pregnant. I would think you would see that sex has serious side affects being that you are pregnant you should take that health of your baby into account and not put it at risk by having multiple partners. Also if that is how you behave after the baby is born the baby, it will pay with emotional stress that is not needed.
  • 12-12-2008 11:16 AM In reply to

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    Brittany I had to get in on this, I agree with some of the people on here and for the others who are being rude to you shame on them, we are here to help and support not to tare down a person for any reason at all. First of all I am proud of you for opting to keep this child instead of abortion. However it is time for you to step up and take responsibility for you and the baby, if you for one second think that you are not ready by anymeans do what is right not only for you but for your child there are programs out there that lets you choose the family that you want to raise your baby. If you think that you can give this child the love and attention that he/she deserves by allmeans you do that. It is going to be a long tough road but not because your young but because motherhood is not always the easiest thing at all. I had no choice of raising a child that was not mine, I was 12 years old and my sister wasnt ready to be a mother she is 5 years older than me the same age as you are now, but I was the one who took care of my niece and I was much younger I am now 22 and expecting one of my own my DH and I have had 2 prior m/c this year and this one has been the strong one and made it past that bump that the others couldnt. Age isnt everything it is the mind set of the person, you can do this if that is what you want to do. Just please start acting more responsible for yourself and for your unborn child. As far as getting pregnant while already pregnant, it is a very rare accasion it is possible if you are in the 3% of women who can actually accomplish this. As far as ovulating of course the majority of women do not ovulate while pregnant just that 3% of women do. The best thing that I can tell you is do a lot of research for yourself, search your heart and do what is best for you and your unborn child. One of my good friends was 16 when she had her first child and was married shortly after they found out, but they didnt get married because they were pregnant they just moved up the wedding date they were already getting married. They have been married for 12 years now and have two children now a boy and a girl, so like I said it is the mind set of the person. There are also programs to help young mothers learn how to take care of themselves and how to be responsible for another life please look into one of those they are very informational and very helpful. They do continue helping you until you feel like you can accomplish everything on your own I know of some who stay with these programs until 21 and some of the girls in there are as young as 13. Please get some help from others who are in your shoes and have been in your shoes. Dont let anyone make you feel bad about yourself for having a child bottom line is you have stepped up and have taken the responsibility for your actions and not taking the coward way out. Just now fully understand the responsibilites that lay ahead for you and if you need any further help or just need a person to talk to that wont judge you, you can pm me and I will help as best to my abilities and I will just be an extra pair of ears to listen.
  • 12-12-2008 1:45 PM In reply to

    • Mrs Garcia
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    Re: PLz HELP ME

    Yes you can get pregnant while you're pregnant.  It's incredibly rare but it happens.  It's a type of twinning.  Some women have hormonal imbalances that allow them to ovulate while they're pregnant. 

  • 12-12-2008 4:00 PM In reply to

    • Chamelyan
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    Re: PLz HELP ME

     I know a woman who got pregnant while pregnant, with TWO sets of twins about 2 months apart.  Unfortunately, she miscarried all four of them.  But anyway, it happens, and like the other ladies have said, it's very rare.  That said, the best thing you can start doing for yourself is to take care of your body, especially since you have someone else depending on you to do it.

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