I am 45, soon to be 46, and very surprised to be having my third child in January. When I found out a month ago I was as scared as I could possibly be. My husband is silently scared to death. He is soon to be 48 and can't get over the fact that he will be 60 when this child is 12. Since the day I saw those double lines on the pregnancy test I have realized that this baby is a spectacular gift from God and I pray every day that he/she will be healthy and the biggest joy in my husband's (and, of course, my) life. Both of my children will be in high school this fall--my daughter will be a sophomore and my son will be a freshmen. My daughter found me out before I got the nerve to tell her. She was a little upset that I didn't confide in her but I was so worried about my husband's adjustment. My son, on the other hand, was completely oblivious and very happy when he found out the news.