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I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

Last post 08-16-2009 6:21 AM by rocky3228186. 6 replies.
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  • 07-31-2009 8:04 PM

    I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    My sex life is Great but sometimes it hurts to much where i can't take the pain anymore and i want him to stop but i don't want him to think that there is something wrong with him.I don't know how to tell him exspecially when we are right in the middle of sex. Sometimes i feel that we are going to hurt the baby and that's the last thing i want to happen. What should i do?
  • 08-01-2009 12:36 AM In reply to

    Re: I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    Hi there, i am pregnant with twins and my doctor said no sex for me until after birth, because he stich my cervix to hold the babies. It has been hard for both me and my husband. We try to do other things like kissing more and touching a lot. I think it is harder for him than for me and i feel bad but i took him to the doctor with me and he had to explain the reasons why. It might be a good idea to take him with you at your next visit and have the doctor speak to him. Having sex with your partner when you are pregnant does not heard the baby but it should not heard you either. Speak to your doctor about it. Good luck!!!
  • 08-01-2009 9:31 AM In reply to

    • hcjfctc
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    Re: I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    I would talk to him about it. I have a great sex life too, but when it started hurting, I would say things like, "Next time, I think we need to try a different position." I'm sure the last thing he wants to do is hurt you so let him know that sometimes because there's less room in there and such it can be painful so maybe you could give him some kind of signal to be a bit more gentle or that it's time to change positions.
  • 08-01-2009 8:15 PM In reply to

    Re: I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    I havent found out wether I am pregnant or not yet. I am going Monday to find out. Your post sparked my interest though because the past few times my fiance has been in "the mood" I have not been up to it. Today my hips were hurting real bad and I couldnt explain to him why and make him understand. Have you experienced this? I am confused. Ive only been pregnant one time and that was 9 yrs ago! I dont remember anything. Can you give me some incite? Im sorry to bother you with this craziness.

  • 08-09-2009 10:25 PM In reply to

    • Apryl3469611
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    Re: I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    Thanks for starting this topic. I am in my first trimester but have noticed that the further along I become that some positions do cause a little pain. I did not mention it to my spouse till after we had intercourse. He wanted to know why I did not tell him during sex,but as a woman I did not want to hurt his feelings even though I was in pain. In addition to the pain, I have noticed that I do not really have much of a sex drive. I am usually very erotic,but now seem to either be constantly nauseated and tired. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to solve this lack of sex drive ?
  • 08-10-2009 6:14 PM In reply to

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    Re: I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    Apryl3469611:
    Thanks for starting this topic. I am in my first trimester but have noticed that the further along I become that some positions do cause a little pain. I did not mention it to my spouse till after we had intercourse. He wanted to know why I did not tell him during sex,but as a woman I did not want to hurt his feelings even though I was in pain. In addition to the pain, I have noticed that I do not really have much of a sex drive. I am usually very erotic,but now seem to either be constantly nauseated and tired. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to solve this lack of sex drive ?
    The only thing I can say is just try and keep it up. Maybe you'll be one of the lucky ones to get the sex drive back in the 2nd semester. I haven't had my sex drive at all through this whole pregnancy and I'm now in my 3rd trimester, but I still tried my best to keep our sex life alive. I would sometimes wear lingerie before bed or a push-up bra during the day to make me feel sexy. Even though I wasn't "in the mood" I still enjoyed our time together.
  • 08-16-2009 6:21 AM In reply to

    Re: I love my sex life but sometimes i can't be as freaky as i normaly am

    im in my 3rd trimester and I not in the mood usually....my husband understands but I know he is horny....most positions are uncomfortable as I cant hold them for long add to that he is thick...oh well...we will just have to be patient....good-luck
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