15&Pregnant. Sacred 0f Pushing Him Away For Good!

• 08-12-2009 2:03 PM

  Jessica3469190 Joined on 07-18-2009 Posts 1

  15&Pregnant. Sacred 0f Pushing Him Away For Good! Reply Contact So im 15 and 11 weeks pregnant. Ill be 3 months on our 8 month anniversary. Well ever since i told him i was pregnant i felt like he started to change. He was excited at first but just lately its not like that anymore. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore. I feel so fat and unattractive. He trys to remind me as much as he can that im still beautiful and sexy but it just goes through one ear and out the other. Lately we've been fighting more than ever and im usually the one to start them over small stupid little things. I try to stop myself but its hard. I cant help what bothers me, but everytime i try to talk to him it never comes out right and we end up fighting and mad at eachother. Its getting so bad that i just brake up with him cause i feel like thats best for him so he wont have to hear me yelling at him everyday. And its even worse because his cousin is pregnant too and i feel like he puts her before me and like he compares me to her because she doesnt act the way i do, but yet i dont know that for a fact. But i do know that her boyfriend isnt the greatest to her at all! He treats her bad! But my boyfriend doesnt understand how i feel or where im comig from. He tells me everyday that he loves me and only me but its hard to believe that when i see him looking at all these other skinny pretty girls! I feel like he wishes i look like them or he's more attracted to them, and i dont look like all those other girls right now being pregnant! I try to get over it and be cool but i still slip sometimes. I just think too much about all the bad things that can happen when in reality i have a wonderful and amazing boyfriend. I just cant get that through my head :( I need help to stop this crazyness inside of me because thats not who i am! I was never like that before with him. I was never jealous i always trusted him and we would alway get along. Im just scared of ending up alone without him. I've seen it so many times before. But i feel like im the one setting myself up for it?! What should i do???

• 08-18-2009 2:54 PM

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  Dave's Buttercup Joined on 06-20-2008 Victor Colby Born 100% Naturally 1/12/2009 Posts 105

  Re: 15&Pregnant. Sacred 0f Pushing Him Away For Good! Reply Contact I'm really sorry to hear your feeling like this.  15 is hard enough, without adding the hormones of your first trimester.  They can make you feel really crazy at times.  When I was pregnant, my first trimester and even a few weeks into my second trimester, I'd get so hot-blooded at just this one person, I felt like a total b!tch all the time in general.  I hope when your 2nd trimester rolls around you start feeling less like your boyfriend isn't a "jerk."  In a few short weeks, you'll feel much better

• 08-18-2009 3:10 PM

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  Brittney3504426 Joined on 08-18-2009 Canada SK. Posts 1

  Re: 15&Pregnant. Sacred 0f Pushing Him Away For Good! Reply Contact If I were you, you should try really hard to ignore the pesky lil thoughts that try invade your mind just tell yourself, I'm pregnant and thats why I feel so sad or angry or whatever. If you describe him as a wonderful boyfriend I bet he is, and he's probably scared too, so just try get through it and not argue. I remember when I was 15 and I was in your situation. I cried and argued with him all the time and was frustrated that I ws getting bigger and my body was changing. When I look back now I can't believe how strong he was to put up with me when I was crazy with my pregnancy hormones!! well I'm pregnant today again, were married and its been 8 years.... stay strong girl and be nice! tell him your only being bonkers from your pregnancy lol good luck!! :D

• 08-21-2009 2:47 PM

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  megan3475354 Joined on 07-23-2009 spokane wa Posts 89

  Re: 15&Pregnant. Sacred 0f Pushing Him Away For Good! Reply Contact i agree i was 15 when i had my first child and i was the same way that you are, just be strong and you can get through it i am 30 now and i am feeling the same way that you are right now.if i were you i would just tell him what you are going through, i know it sounds have him read a book on it were you are. how about look it up on line so he knows that you are not the only *** woman in the work that is pregnant, since i hope that this is his first baby he may not know that its just the crazy hormons that are going through you.. good luck girl and stay strong.. you can do it!!