Libido Check, Ladies :)

• 11-19-2009 11:50 PM

  Ms.Stumbleine Joined on 09-07-2009 Upper Left Edge Posts 162

  Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact Hi, All! I hope this isn't too personal of a topic, but I was just wondering how everyone's been dealing with being pregnant and the good ol' love life :) Personally, mine hasn't been any different ... always up, up, and up. I might be a sexaholic. LOL. The only thing that keeps me "outta the bed" is when I get really, really tired. My partner is very thankful that being pregnant hasn't turned our romance off, for me. I thought that I might begin to worry about the baby, but I think that I have read enough material about how it is fine, for most uneventful pregnancies ... so NO FEAR, just sex. :) Anyway, I was hoping to hear how all of you are doing; if you'd like to share...

• 11-20-2009 6:42 AM

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  ~ lisamarie ~ Joined on 02-26-2006 Caden~Oct. 2006 #2 Due April 14, 2010 Posts 810

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact Every since I became pregnant with my DS, almost 4 years ago now, my sex life has been pretty dead! DH was hoping that this pregnancy would turn things back around, you know like make things come full circle, lol! So far it hasnt happened! I only see him now on the weekends so it makes it a bit easier to DTD because I only see him for a short time...hes not there all the time bugging me!! I feel bad I have NO sex drive, but there is nothing I can do to change that, unfortunately! I still do it for his sake at least, just dont want all the extra making out, foreplay crap!

• 11-20-2009 7:18 AM

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  Jenna3595488 Joined on 10-28-2009 Prince Posts 772

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact Mine has changed quite a bit.. it's so strange, some days i just about want to jump DF the next day i'm like please just don't touch me l0l.. I hope that it all gets back to normal soon.. but to make it even worse lately have been having sharp pains [[ they say its normal ]] && it scare DF l0l, he's afraid that when i'm already having issue that doing anything will make it worse or hurt the baby so he basically refuses! uhhh, makes me so mad l0l. Plus we are already both on the edge since i'm getting closer to when i lost my son at 20 wks.. we are just nervous i guess.. our sex life has def. suffered but isn't completely dead thank goodness!

• 11-20-2009 7:19 AM

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  erbear020510 Joined on 06-01-2005 north carolina Posts 316

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact Ya I'm pretty much not interested most of the time. My boyfriend complains about it but that's nothing new. We where married before with our other two and he complained then about my lack of enthusiasm in that area also. I agree about not wanting the extra foreplay crap. LOL. I'm better when I'm not preggers but still it's difficult when you've got little ones around or your being pestered constantly about it. Since by bf and I aren't living together now it's a little better because he can't bug me all the time. Nothing turns me off more then when I'm consentrating on doing something, completely not in the mood to begin with, and he comes up and grabs me or walks by pantless or some dumb crap. Give me a break, that's NOT turning me on. That just pisses me off.

• 11-20-2009 7:36 AM

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  ~ lisamarie ~ Joined on 02-26-2006 Caden~Oct. 2006 #2 Due April 14, 2010 Posts 810

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact erbear020510: completely not in the mood to begin with, and he comes up and grabs me or walks by pantless or some dumb crap. Give me a break, that's NOT turning me on. LOL!! Oh what a typical man!! I tell my DH all the time that getting me in the mood starts in the morning...its the little things he can say/do throughout the day that will make me want to DTD that night. You cant be a jerk and turn on your sweet side when you hop in bed, it doesnt work like that, but he doesnt get it I guess!!!

• 11-20-2009 7:33 PM

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  msc40001 Joined on 01-23-2006 Omaha Posts 69

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact My libido is high.  I could have sex every day right now. I am always horny. My dh is not like what you all say yours is though. My dh likes sex, but he would be happy only doing it like once a week. He thinks it kida gets boring when you do it all the time, but it is a lot better when you go awhile without it.  I agree, generally. But not now. I just want to have orgasms all the time. I probably give it to myself 1-2 times a week and get it from him 1-2 times a week. (TMI?? Sorry. I am not shy, lol) Of course, dh just has a Vasectomy Wed, so he is not even thinking about it yet, he is still VERY sore. BOy am I going to be happy when he feels good enough to bone!

• 11-21-2009 11:35 AM

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  Charity3537744 Joined on 09-20-2009 IT'S BOY #3! Posts 348

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact With my 1st pregnancy nothing changed with our sex life. We had sex the same as always. After he was born it was the same. After the birth of my 2nd son things kinda went down hill a little bit. I think it has more to do with being tired than not wanting it though. This pregnancy I have been soooooo tired that we barely do it anymore. Probably once every two weeks or so. I mean he doesn't get home during the week until 9pm so by then I am ready for bed. Oh well; hopefully my libido will be back soon as I've just entered the 2nd trimester:)

• 11-21-2009 12:04 PM

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  Sarah422 Joined on 11-14-2009 Massachusetts Posts 174	Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact Still going strong here :) Of course being newly weds (just over five months) probably helps we really enjoy finding new things.

• 11-21-2009 5:24 PM

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  jenndear Joined on 06-27-2005 Phoenix, AZ -Riley Scott- 3/5/07 Posts 105	Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact We had a total sex fest making this baby...and that's all she wrote! I have been completely non-sexual since I concieved. I feel really bad because hubby is horny as h$ll, but I can't MaKE mysel want it. It's not that I'm afraid of hurting the baby or anything, I just don't feel like it.

• 11-22-2009 11:55 AM

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  SCBrown Joined on 09-01-2009 London, UK Posts 288

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact see im with you on this, i been really wanting it, that sometimes im taking care of things myself, me n my bf normally have sex everyday, sometimes its normal, but we try make it a lil diff, i gues for me the foreplay helps, cos he certainly does his share of the work, and baby i love it, im not shy either, things went down hill for a while cos i lost interest in the major foreplay side of thins but, man i have discovered how to get wot i want now, an tried it last night an........WOW!! i only hope it jus continues to stay like this!

• 11-22-2009 4:08 PM

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  kknabarrett Joined on 12-08-2007 Littleton,CO Posts 290

  Re: Libido Check, Ladies :) Reply Contact Our love life was always terrific until I gave birth to our DS, now I don't have any real sensation down there I can only feel pressure so it isn't exactly something I want to do. It's been hard for my husband, because he was used to the first 5 years of marriage having 3x a week + to now being lucky to get it once a week. He's also hoping that something will change with this birth, but I'm not counting on it. I'm just really glad that he likes me as a person or we'd be in trouble lol!