Just my two cents on this discussion...as has been pointed out C-sections are NOT minor surgery and they take some serious recovery time. My son was born by C-section and it was scheduled due to risks on my part from a blood clotting disorder and a concern over a potential placental abruption. I will be having another C-section for the same reason in June. They are a big deal. The female body is awesome in its ability to give birth and cope with pain, whether it is from a vag delivery or a surgery like C-section. And it is that, it is definately surgery. There are some legitimate medical reasons for having a C-section and generally those aren't considered "elective" because a vaginal delivery would cause greater risk to the mom or baby than a C-section would. Its all about what is best for you, but I would strongly encourage you to educate yourself on the two options rather than take anyone's opinion, including your doctor. IMHO, a fear of pain is legitimate but there are REALLY good ways to cope with pain during labor and delivery that don't involve the risks of the section. If you do chose a vag delivery, I concur with the previous recommendation to hire a doula. They can help make sure your wants are followed during birth, and can be invaluable resources in dealing with pain and anxiety during a delivery. Hope that helps and prayers and thoughts for your baby's safe arrival and peace for you about your decisions.