Hi Kristine, first I am sorry for your loss. I loss my Mason at 18 weeks back in July 07. So I understand what you are going through.I know that you are going to have a successful pregnancy. I am a positive person here. I am going on my 31st week and 12th week of bedrest. I too got a cerclage at 14 weeks and my cervix began to shorten and funnel at 19 weeks, so thats when bedrest started. Thanks to the Almighty God, my cerclage has been holding and have had not infections. I cannot say that it has been extremely easy, but positive thinking and God has gotten me through this. It is common to have anxiety and worry especially if you have had a loss, but you will get through. We are here for support. Carmen