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Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

Last post 11-05-2009 7:29 AM by crystalphillip. 7 replies.
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  • 09-22-2009 4:07 PM

    Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    Well I am 25 weeks pregnant and before this, for about 3 weeks, I had cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I confronted him about it and he knew why I did it and forgave me. He knows about what I am going to ask on here and doesn't really mind because he is still willing to take responsibility for this baby, but I need to know even though he doesn't mind. Well My last period was on march 24th 2009 and my esatimated ovulation date was supposed to be april 10th. Me and my boyfriend had sex on April 9th at around 4 in the morning. He ejaculated inside me completely. The next night though, around 12 midnight, me and the other guy I had been dating were out and doing our own thing. One thing led to another and we had sex. I stopped about 15 minutes after because I felt really bad about what I was doing. I didnt let him finish at all, so he didnt ejaculate at anytime. I am worried about the 'potential' precum getting me pregnant although I strongly believe that its my boyfriend who got me pregnant because he fully ejaculated inside me and we had sex before I had with the other guy. What are the chances of this baby being my boyfriend's rather than the other guys? Also, just to know who the babys father is, we decided to take a paternity test, but I am only 6 months and just want to know from other people an estimate guess. I know it wont help much, but I am just wanting to know from other people whose they believe it might be. (I honestly believe its my boyfriends because although I know that pregnancy can be caused by precum, I believe that the only way precum c0ontains sperm is when there is sperm left over in the tubes and the fluid picks it up on its way out. Precum cannot contain fluid on its own when produced in a different gland than the sperm itself is produced.)
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  • 09-22-2009 5:38 PM In reply to

    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    I think it's your boyfriends.
  • 09-22-2009 6:38 PM In reply to

    • Mizzstartzman7709
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    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    Wow that's a close call...and I say bf...
  • 09-22-2009 9:10 PM In reply to

    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    Healthy sperm can live for as long as 3 to 5 days inside of your body, so even if you were set to ovulate on the 10th, if you had unprotected sex and your boyfrend ejaculated inside you on the 9th, it's extremely likely the baby is his. Especially if the other guy didn't ejaculate inside of you. The odds of becoming pregnant from precum is slim to none. And you are actually most likely to conceive if you have sex in the days before ovulation, since it can take as long as 24+ hours for the sperm to reach the egg, and the egg itself only lives for about 24 hours after being released from the ovary. Your boyfriend's sperm was probably still in the process of chasing the egg when you were intimate with the other guy. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you and your family. I would still get a DNA paternity test done after delivery, just to have the legal ability to pursue child support if it becomes necessary, although it sounds like your boyfrend is the most likely culprit here, and a pretty stand-up guy.
  • 09-26-2009 2:37 PM In reply to

    • hcjfctc
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    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    I also it is most likely your bf's for the same reasons as Crissi.
  • 10-19-2009 7:01 PM In reply to

    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    i read some research that said that conception was more likely to occur when the partners had been intimate for a long time beforehand. in other words, that your body gets used to the DNA or whatever of your long-term partner, and so conception is more likely to occur from them, even if you have sex with others at the same time.

    i also agree with PP, that it is most likely to be your boyfriends'. kudos to him for being able to get past any relationship issues and be willing to care for the baby.....

  • 10-20-2009 11:28 AM In reply to

    • erbear020510
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    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    I bet it's your bf's. odds are in his favor.
  • 11-05-2009 7:29 AM In reply to

    Re: Who would most likely be the father of my baby?

    Don't worry its your boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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